Umm can I ask you a question? Does anyone hassle you about being a lesbian? How do you deal with that? I get bullied at school for being a lesbian, I dont know what to do, I just want it to stop, but I feel like the only way it will stop is if I die
First: If you'd like to talk privately, come off anon.
I'm a 39 year old woman. I haven't been bullied for my orientation since I was 18. There are things you can do to make it better while you're in the situation you are in, but mostly they amount to what you're likely doing—stay low and surround yourself with people who care about you and like you.
I will tell you that it will get better if you live. Talk to someone. Talk to ME if you want. Talk to a counselor at school about the bullying. Just hang on. *hugs*
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A message from every girl who enjoys sex and showing off her body.
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I was reading one of your ask boxes, and I'm curious about sub drop? What does that mean? And how can you recognize it?
Sub drop is the emotional (and likely physiological) hangover that comes after a sub comes down from a play session. It's characterized by a lot of thinking about the session, performance anxiety, and being generally down and low energy.
My best guess (and people I respect agree with me) think it has a lot to do with the effect of being high on endorphins and adrenoline and coming down from that (combined with no longer actively being in the submissive role).
firmmaster: I like to play with knives,...
I like to play with knives, too………….
bored n playing with knives yes
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Out of curiousity
who's coming over tonight for rough sex?
Lol why did tou put *shudders* as a response to what thst girl wrote about her foot?
Because I shudder at the thought of receiving a bloody foot in the mail. DO NOT WANT.
Would/have you ever beat someone unconscious?
First let me say that I haven't ever done that.
I don't think I would ever intentionally do it. I get off on the reactions of my sub, and no matter how well she consents or how much she understands the risks (and there are risks to that), I won't be getting off on it at all.
Could it happen by accident? Yeah, sure. It's extremely unlikely, since I check in fairly often and I don't usually do anything that impacts the head to any degree (which is where you'd be most likely to get to that point).
I have had bottoms pass out from intense experiences before, but I wouldn't call any of them beating someone unconscious. That's more along the lines of the brain shutting down until the stimulus ends (usually in conjunction with an incredibly intense orgasm).
Before you ask, I haven't choked anyone unconscious.
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pinkdiapers replied to your post: Oh I would do anything for you From: obedient-lil-sub *Sigh* I...
*Sigh* I guess I wont need to send this foot then. :(
*shudder*
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Hey dom here looking for advice, my darling girl is suffering from sub drop, she always seems sad and dosnt enjoy anything anymore, I make sure she knows I love her and that she is precious, I buy her gifts, and treat her well, what should I do?
My first question is are you sure it's sub drop? The always you have in your question makes me wonder if there's not something else going on (like depression).
But assuming it happens after you play, once the high wears off, then the problem is probably that she's not getting the care she needs. Part of that is going to be self care. You can't provide everything. But the part that you are providing might be missing the mark. It might not be that she needs gifts or to be treated well. Maybe she needs you to hold her. Maybe you need to tell her she's amazing and she's a good girl. Maybe she needs little acts of service in return (make her tea, make dinner… something). People reconnect in different ways.
Maybe she needs to be alone to work through whatever came up—but don't abandon her. If she wants to be left alone, its important that you're still available for her (by text or phone, if not in the room).
Unfortunately, I won't be able to tell you what to do for her, but I would suggest talking to her about what's going on and make suggestions about what you can do to help. Sub drop doesn't usually last more than a couple of days and it's rare that a sub drops after every scene, so I would consider looking for—and asking her about—what other dynamics are present so the two of you can find a solution.
Oh I would do anything for you From: obedient-lil-sub
Anything? What if I asked you to cut off your foot and mail it to me?
I don't want your foot, but the idea that anyone would do "anything" is a big turn off for me because you're starting things off with a lie.
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